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May 20, 2010 6:35:11 AM cite

Why does GOD let me be sexually abused over and over?

by lacrimoso

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Oct 4, 2010 4:18:46 AM cite

You haven't bothered picking up the phone and calling for help or questioned your alleged abuser or even fighting back. If your not going to do something yourself and instead rely on others then why should anyone let alone God help you? A lot of what happens to people can be easily stopped by people and what happens to you usually starts with you. Most atheists are abused children and take this philosophy to heart and turn that hate of their abuser into hate for God. Be strong and call the authorities, it's what you should do.

by jshm2

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  God by ukdirector 0 votes

Oct 2, 2010 11:58:56 PM cite

God and all religion is man made and only exists as long as people believe, in this day and age we can debunk all of the so call holy books with science. As to the abuse that you suffer, your abuser is sick and or evil. You must tell anyone and everyone so that the abuse stops, do not let another day go past where you suffer at the hands of this person. Report the abuse to the police at the very least. I am sorry for your suffering, but it is when good people stay silent that evil will prevail. You have within you the means to stop the abuse, all you need is tell someone

by ukdirector

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  Imaginary by orks 1 vote

Sep 17, 2010 3:39:30 AM cite

That's simple. It's because God is imaginary and only exists in your mind.

by orks

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Sep 1, 2010 9:43:39 PM cite

Perhaps you have not allowed God, to come inside of you yet

by chynt

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Aug 21, 2010 4:12:15 PM cite

It is not your fault, but you not God can make it stop. You are probably a naïve person, a good person. Realize that evil does exist and become your own hero and vanquish the evil actions of others. You have power and there are those who can help, they are called the police. Do not put yourself in the victim position and become a mark for the abuser, do not be an easy insecure target. Get strong and take control of your life but don’t retaliate get help, it is there.

by Thai sean

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Jul 21, 2010 2:48:12 PM cite

You would prefer not to have a free will?

by HURRA

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Jun 14, 2010 7:24:06 AM cite

The funny thing about god, i found, is that there are always more questions than answers. Religous questions are always hard to answer, because most answers are based on doctrine and basic theology. All of which can be debated over and over again and still not come to a conclusion. First off, no such thing should ever happen to a child. Somebody took something from you that was never meant to be taken. From your later posts, I know that you are older now, but obviously, as is normal, is still a major question in your life. The only person to blame in all this is the person that did this. You did nothing wrong. I hope you can honestly say that to yourself. Secondly, you mentioned "free will" in a post of yours to another person answering your question. Maybe this free will brought you to this point to make a decision. You have the free will to let this go and be a survivor. By letting this go and helping others, you are not only enabling other violated children, but you are enabling yourself to be who you are. Maybe god had to put you through this to be the mentor and helper of others? Either way, the answer to this is within you and your beliefs. I hope you choose the road that helps you and others. My thoughts are with you.

by Roark Thurston

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Jun 3, 2010 6:16:40 PM cite

maybe through us humans is how God experiences pain, and only by going through it an understanding it can it eventually be eliminated.. like a doctor who must fully understand an illness to cure it. I don't know, just a thought I have had in response to all the pain in this world.

by alexandraklav

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Jun 1, 2010 4:32:32 AM cite

Why do you blame a god that you put all of your faith and trust in for something that he obviously cannot control? the point of religion is to give you morals and understanding of the good side of human nature, not to blame and take only what you want or need. If you rely on God to save and fix your problems, then it seems you have not interpreted your religious book very well. If you are being abused and you want it to stop, i suggest seeking help. If this is the case, then I am very sorry for the things that you are going through.

by lostinthought

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May 29, 2010 10:13:16 AM cite

Let's talk about "being passive" for a moment. As you can see you talk in a way as if everything "happens" to you. That shows lack of power and will. So please try to do this exercise from now on in your life. It's a well known exercise btw: Imagine a world where everyone lives for you. They live their lives for you but they try to conceal it from you. It's like they (and therefor also me) are doing a play. A big musical. For you!. The thing is. You are the director. You are the one responsible for everything in your life. Because we are just doing what your subconscious says we have to do. This also includes the abuse. When you've overcome your lack of will and become more a active person in life. You will see that you won't believe in god anymore. You won't believe anything outside of yourself is to blame or to praise. When going to a church. Don't think of god. Think of the strength inside you. Or. As Christians would say: Feel god inside you. But that's just awful. ITS YOU INSIDE YOU. Why praise some third person?

by Luuk1992

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  Simply. by Halite 2 votes

May 24, 2010 5:16:34 PM cite

God is imaginary. I bet if you went down to your local martial arts school and explained you situation they would give you classes for free. Also please talk to you teacher or another responsible adult.

by Halite

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  God? by skeenan 4 votes

May 22, 2010 4:31:42 PM cite

In my opinion the god you reference here isnt real outside of the human mind. So the notion that some being outside the human mind let something happen to you is delusion. A person did this to you and as long as we as a species continue to understand the problems we face, like the one you have stated here, in terms of an ominpotent being that allows for everything on earth to take place and that has a hand in every action, then these problems will continue to take place.

by skeenan

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May 20, 2010 7:24:17 AM cite

God does not allow or cause you to be abused, that is the fault of the person who is commiting these acts. If you are being abused, tell someone, and keep telling people till someone helps you. You have done nothing wrong and you do not need to be a victim. If you can post on the internet, you can contact some authority who can help.

by thedoc

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